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I have a bachelor of psychology and have written two books - one self help book called renovate your life and a fiction crime novel called trinkets - I also have diploma's in Life Coaching, Herbalism, Homeopathy, Nutrition, Aromatherapy, colour therapy, crystal therapy and past life therapy. I also read tarot cards. I am a human rights activist and interfaith.
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Im Jade and im 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend Nick, 17, for almost more than a year. I feel like he tends to be overprotective and won't ever let me be around other people unless im next to him or whatever and it annoys me.And if we're out in public or with friends he can get a bit touchy feely, and I get embarrassed, and he does this mostly when we're around his friends. He'll grab my butt in front of them or smack it and its just so annoying cuz he thinks its funny and if I try and tell him to stop but he just tells me to shut up or he'll kiss me so I can shut up. I dont know why he does this and it really gets to me. There was an incident where we were at his friends house and he just shoved his hands down my pants without asking or telling me, and I told him to stop because his friend was watching and he gave me this death stare and told me to just go with it and I didn't want to, and he just leaned and kissed me so that I couldn't say anything else. Why does he do these things to me, I feel like he disregards my feelings when it comes to stuff like that. How do I tell him not to do this, I really dont want this to happen anymore. (link)
Sweetheart, people who love you respect your wishes and your boyfriend is not doing that - your body is your own and only you get to say how it is treated - by giving you the death stare and telling you to go with it your boyfriend is being disrespectful and controlling. People who care about you do not try to control you to get what they want. Please realise how precious you are and that you should be treated as such


Rating: 5
Thank you for making that clear to me! I have dumped him.




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