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Last Update: September 8, 2014
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Hi, I'm 18/f..... This guy, my neighbor, loves me but I don't love him back. I've told him before that I'm not interested in him and there's no hope for us. He's always texting me and asking to come visit me. Sometimes I say yes. He is trying so hard for me to love him back but it's never gonna happen. How do I tell him that he can stop trying so hard because he is wasting his time?? I hate to see him try when he knows I will never love him. Please help. (link)
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Hey!
I had this exact problem except that my best friend fell in love with me and it was not good!
I know that you feel bad because if you invite him over then it's "leading him on" and if you ignore him, well your seen as rude! But the trick is just be completely honest. Maybe ask him over and just sit and talk about it all. Explain how you feel about him and that you really want NOTHING more than to be friends. If he tries to persuade you just insist that you cannot control your feelings!
If that fails then my advice would be to cut contact with him. Try texting him back less, don't invite him over. Don't avoid him, just don't make as much of an effort with him. You may find that this love wears off and he meets somebody knew.
The bottom line is, be blunt and be honest with him. It's easier to set him in his place now and make it very clear what you want than later on.
Hope this helps and good luck x
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Thank you so much for your response. I really apreciate it
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