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My name is Juliet...I've done a lot in my life, and gone through hell and back many times. Which is why I'm perfect to give advice. I've gone through almost every relationship problem imaginable. Don't be scared to ask me questions. I'm on a lot, and I LOVE having this advice column. So ask away and I'll answer it the best I can. Also, I'm very blunt. If you ask me a question, I'm going to tell you what I think. I do NOT beat around the bush...or sugar coat things.
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My husband is a bit old fashion and doesnt feel we need anything in the bedroom thats new, and we barely ever have sex yet he insists hes happy. Well im pretty UNHAPPY, and want either more sex, or be allowed to use toys if i feel. He does not agree with ANY kind of toys.
I recently discovered the newer toy called the sybian, its uses nothing but vibration. I know that they retail for about 1400 bucks but i found a way to make my own for a fraction of the price! the only problem is i cant tell my husband....
my question is, is it better to own a toy like this and never tell him (risking him discovering it because they arent that easy to hide if your place isnt that large) ORRRR tell him, make the thing anyway, and risk him feeling sad, and or calling me a sex addict because i want it more then he does??
how do i have this talk with him and what can i do to turn him onto toys or at least be OK with them?
Tell him. Tell him, to sit his butt down, and to watch you enjoy using it. Tell him, to use it on you. Part of being married, is being intimate. And in biblical reading, if a partner or husband/wife wants it, the partner must submit. Now, we've come a long way from that, and that's great! Now, you are your own person...just because you're married. My fiancé wasn't sure about it...then I showed it to him and did it in front of him...it gets him all kinds of hot and bothered.
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hahah thats cool thanks!
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