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I am too old and out of shape to beat around the bush so I'll give it to you straight. If you want sugarcoating go to the candy store, you won't find it here. Sometimes a little good old fashioned honesty is just what the doctor ordered!
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I'm 14/f. And I've been battling many disorders for 2 years now. I have anorexia, anxiety, bulimia, depression, ednos, insomnia, paranoia, selfharm, selfhate. I've been through a bunch and I've attempted suicide 3 times. I don't want attention for this though. This winter season has been really hard on me and no one except my best friend knows about how much these disorders have hurt me. I've got so many deep cuts and scars on my thighs, arms, wrists, and hips. I usually will put a bunch of foundation on my arms to cover the scars but I don't want to have to do this all summer. I play baseball and our uniforms are sleeveless, so I can't cover them all the time. How can I make a remedy for scar removal? Please help! (link)
Well Hon, how will it help to remove the scars if you are still cutting yourself? You have to stop. I am going to assume if this has been going on for two years that your parents know? If they know then I once again have to assume you are getting treatment? If you have made 3 suicide attempts you parents must be aware! My question is why isn\'t someone monitoring you better? You have to know you need help because you can name all of your problems very accurately!You need to be in a clinic for this where you can get help. Go to an adult you trust immediately and show them what you are doing. I really can\'t believe your parents aren\'t aware of this. Maybe you should be living elsewhere for a while where you can get the attention and help you need. I hope you will talk to someone about this today. You are worth it whether you see it nor not. It sounds like you are looking forward to baseball, I\'ll bet you are good at it aren\'t you? You know what, I hope someday you will be able show other kids those scars and tell them how you overcame your problems and they can too. Don\'t hide it, use it to help others. Good can come from even the worst situations if you choose to turn it into something positive. I know you can do it, just gather up all your courage and go tell someone, okay!


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My parents know nothing about my condition. Neither does anyone except one of my friends. I play competitive baseball so I'm okay but thanks




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