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I am too old and out of shape to beat around the bush so I'll give it to you straight. If you want sugarcoating go to the candy store, you won't find it here. Sometimes a little good old fashioned honesty is just what the doctor ordered!
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Hello, I'm 18/F and my bf and I have been dating for two years now. When we began dating, he had told me about girls who also likes him. There are quite a few and I just can't stop thinking about this particular girl he told me. She liked him and I think she still does but he didn't like her. My bf and I live in the same state while she live in another state. I completely have no idea what's about her that I can't stop thinking about her one day ending up with my bf. of all the girls he told me that like him, why her? What can I do to stop thinking about her ending up with my bf? (link)
Okay, you need to let this sink in for a minute. Your boyfriend is NOT thinking about her YOU are! Why are you looking for trouble where there isn\'t any? A guy will only reassure you over something ridiculous for so long before it starts to get old. Guys DO NOT stay with insecure girls for very long(if you don\'t believe me go ask some random guys and see what they tell you)! Why don\'t you just enjoy the relationship you have with your boyfriend and be happy? Guys like mature, confident girls and I am sure you can be that. Just remind yourself \"why would he want any other girl, he has me!\"


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