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Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and it was an amazing 3 years. We always know how to make each other laugh and each other happy. We love and care for each other very much. About a few days ago, he came to me and wanted to talk. He told me he was re-evaluating his life and wanted to take a break from the relationship so he could "find" himself. He said also he needed some change. I know this break is meant to help us be able to go out and enjoy life without worrying about the other but it really hurts and it's really hard on me. He said that the spark between us was there still but it just wasn't kindling like it should. What makes me more upset about this "break" is he wanted this beautiful necklace back that he gave me for Christmas last year. I'm not sure what to do and honestly this break hurts me more than it is helping. I don't want to seem desperate but I really miss my best friend and I wish he knew that.
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Hang in there girl! Break ups and breaks are tough!
When me and my first boyfriend broke up I was devastated! But I found someone so much better for me after him. Even when I never thought I would.
I think it's strange that he would want his necklace back I because it was a gift for you. Guys should know better than to take back gifts!!
I know you miss him but just keep trying to better yourself and focus on your happiness!! If y'all are meant to be together he will come around! That's sucha confusing time in everyone's lives and he's probably just figuring things out. Guys often can't concentrate on making girls happy until they have something going for themselves. My boyfriend in the first year kept distancing himself because he said he didn't deserve me and needed to make money before he seriously dated me but 5 years later and I realize it wasn't cause he didn't love me or want to break my heart, but instead really cared for me. Point is, your guy could be trying to make himself successful before he continues to date you and make you happy.
You deserve to be treated like a princess and everything truthfully does happen for some strange reason. I'd just focus on making YOU happy and then maybe he will come around.
Try working out, going out with friends, bettering relationships with the family, and just enjoying some you time :)
Just hang in there and if you need anything feel free to ask me anything else!
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Wow, I honestly didn't see it that way and I feel bad for not. But thank you so much! That really opened my eyes to what this really means and it makes me feel a lot better about this! :) Thank you again for the great advice.
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Gender: Female Location: Florida Age: 20 Member Since: January 4, 2006 Answers: 70 Last Update: October 11, 2014 Visitors: 5684
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