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Hello! So I was texting my boyfriend last night. and we've been experimenting with touching (nothing serious) and he said that one time I moaned slightly. I was kind of embarrassed. But I'm curious, what does moaning sound like? (link)
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Hi. I can remember the same worry I when was younger, and do you know, one sometimes accidentally overhears a conversation between younger ladies (I might be having a cup of tea in a cafe, standing in a shop queue) which follow a similar line. Namely that it's not 'the right thing to do' to moan, or make any sort of noises of pleasure/satisfaction when indulging in a little love-play (or having sex, where applicable) with their boyfriends. And of course, it's simply not permitted for a girl to actually talk to her partner during sex...good God no!! One even finds the idea behind it might be that it suggests she is actually enjoying sex, and therefore might appear, or come across as 'slutty'. There's a big element of self-confidence, and (I see you're 14) by the time you're 20 I guarantee you'll overhear the same anxieties, have a bit of a smile to yourself and think 'I was just like that.' I guess what I'm trying to say is the awkwardness/embarrassment is a passing thing so don't get hung-up about it. If you feel like a bit of a moan, go for it. And if he does something that feels nice, telling him
"Mmmm...that feels nice" isn't breaking the 'rules'. I'd take a guess most younger guys quite enjoy hearing their girlfriends expressing a little pleasure. I'm not suggesting you put on or try copy the totally over-the-top (and fake) vocal performance one encounters in adult/porn video of course...that would be going rather too far, don't you think?? You're ok, stop worrying. X
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