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I made out with this guy at a party and he has a girlfriend. I do feel terrible about it but it happened and I can't take it back. However, the next day, my roommate was talking to his roommate and he told her that the guy I made out with always tell his girlfriend when he cheats but he didn't tell his girlfriend about me. He told his roommate that he doesn't want his girlfriend to know. That would make me believe that he regret it happening and that's why he didn't tell her but his roommate said every morning after, he always says he regrets what happened and he wishes he could take it back but the morning after we were together, he didn't say that and we continued on being normal friends and we went to the diner together to get food after we woke up and it was all good.
I'm just confused and wondering if somebody could give me insight as to why he always tells his girlfriend when he cheats but why he didn't tell her about me.
19/f
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Firstly, do you have romantic feelings for this guy? It sounds like you were friends at the time this happened and perhaps continuing your friendship is more important to him than telling his girlfriend what happened.
To me, it sounds like when he regrets what he's done is when he does tell his girlfriend. If you and he intend to remain just friends then I wouldn't be concerned about the issue as it is now. If you and he do have feelings for each other and suspect this may happen again then I would suggest that you consider what you know about his current relationship pattern because if he cheats on his current girlfriend then more than likely he will cheat on you as well. Also consider how important your friendship is because sex can ruin a friendship very quickly.
Hope this helps. Good luck with your situation.
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