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So I'm 15 and I want to be pregnant... I don't know what to do...btw I'm single. For the past couple months I've wanted to have a baby... I need some advice! Please help!!!
I'm not going to throw out all of the logistical issues with having a baby at 15 because I think you already understand that logically it is a bad idea.
The problem is that your body is not thinking logically and your hormones are going to make you have these urges pretty much until you go through menopause. It is just a fact of life and there's nothing you can do to stop it.
I am 23, and I go through those urges too. I have not had children and I don't plan to until I am more stable in life.
Like I said, there's nothing you can do to stop it, but there is something you can do to mitigate it without giving into it (which I think we both know would be a bad plan).
What helped me was my dogs. Having something to care for I think helps to satisfy my nurturing instincts, and it definitely keeps the need to have a baby at bay.
I adopted my older dog (I have 2 now) at 15, so your age. My dad who did not really care since it was MY dog and I paid for her adoption fees and everything, but I don't know what your situation is or if getting a pet is possible for you. I'm not a cat person but I think a cat might have a similar effect for some people if you like them.
If you don't like animals then this is probably bad advice haha but it is what worked for me.
(Rating: 5) Thank you!!! I was soooo stupid and i know it now but you saved me from having a baby i would hate if i had it now!