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Last Update: June 23, 2014
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I married a man whose wife committed suicide and so did her mother, acohol posioning. My husband has a temper and acts like a hot shot immature teen ager and toes into fits, screams, gets in his car and takes off for few hours or days. He thinks he is the only one right and he turns everything that is said. He is an acoholic, and smokes continually. You can't communicate with him at all. He refuses to discuss any situation. I am tired of all this. His family told me after I married him that I should watch myself. I have tried suicide because I am so depressed. He was in debt over $200,000 when I married him but didn't tell me. I am at the verge of trying suicide again and I see a therapist and I don't see any hope. I am not afraid of committing suicide to get out of thismess. And he has a son that he practically gave all the equity in it to him. The son owed us $40,000 (had 5 years to save it) on `1/1/2014. His son doesn't call us, not even on my husbands' birthday, xmas, father's day. They have no communication. They are both mean, and don't communicate. I can't take thisman's split personality. I am ready to quit. I see this going no where and I feel like his mother at times. He doesn't shower except for maybe 2x a week. He stinks like smoke and he lies to me. He puts me down in public and I have lost most of my self esteem. I have a MA and he uses that against me at times, because he did not go to college. I have never used it against him. I hate my life. And I am tired of living. (link)
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First of all, please please please don't ever even CONSIDER suicide as an option. You have so many options right now I know you can't see it right now, but I have been where you are several times. I tried suicide and survived, by the grace of God. There is no hope if you kill yourself. This is Your life, lets not forget, you deserve to be here and be happy just like anyone else. Your situation is not hopeless and without solution. Here is what you do first, stop worrying about any of his money. Forget that it is just pointless, start making a plan to get as far as F* away from him. He's nothing but a train wreck and he will take you down with him. By the way, I know you love yourself and know that you know you deserve better because otherwise you wouldn't have reached out for help. Sweetie you're going to have to be strong and walk away from this. What do you have to lose? If you were planning on dying every single day from this day forward is a gift. You have to get away from him
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Thank you for giving me some hope! You were so right!
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