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Q: Is it okay for a girl to give a guy her number without him asking? If it depends, what does it depend on? Is it creepy to just come out of the blue with it, or is there a specific way to do it?
As a guy and based on my own personal life experiences, I would say that many guys would be thrilled if a girl would come up to them and give them her number.

All in all I see nothing wrong with this. In most places and cultures in the world men and women are generally considered equals. That being the case, you have every right to do this just as much as any male does.

As far as there being some sort of specific way to do it, no there isn't one. Some so-called relationship and dating experts might try to tell you that there is but there really is not.

That being said, some people might think it's a little strange if you don't at least make some kind of effort to communicate a little beforehand. For example making some flirty eye contact with them or attempting to strike up a conversation.

Go for it, you can do this.



We'll, I've had wonderful conversations with him before, I know his name, he knows mine, and a few other basic things. So I guess doing it the way I thought would be okay, but just not for me. I'll have to think of another way, thank you for answering :) and MERRY CHRISTMAS! WHOOO

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