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Member Since: April 19, 2009
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Last Update: December 15, 2013
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Sooo, I just started dating this guy about a week ago. He's really nice and whatnot. But, my previous, and also first boyfriend, would get really mad at me whenever I didn't kiss him. It was my first kiss, but I don't like telling people that because it sucked (he's also my second boyfriend after my previous one). I hated it. I'm scared to kiss him. I told him why and he kind of backed off which made me feel better. I want to kiss him. I just freak out about it. He tells me I need to boost my confidence but I don't know what else to do. I know I'll have to do it someday. I'm even nervous about it just typing this! I've asked friends and everything, but they're no help. Someone with experience or something help me! :( (link)
everyone is nervous about this stuff in the beggining but honestly almost no one who has actually done it a few times still has the fear. its natural to be nervous just know that for the most part things always work out fine. and even if its not perfect the first time, which honestly is the case very often, it gets better. you guys will learn and get better together and eventually find your speed / comfort zone. give it time. i have had many kissses that started off very bad and ended up amazing, you just need time to get used to it and adjust. this boy likes you, he will enjoy kissing you regaurdness. just be comfortable with him and even be honest about your worry and he can help calm you down. boys usually think its cute when you do stuff like that.


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That's very true. Thankyou I'll keep this all in mind! :)




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