Member Since: November 23, 2012
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Last Update: December 10, 2013
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As the title says I'm always afraid that someone close to me will die. Whenever my boyfriends phone is off or he isn't answering I imagine him being in a terrible accident. Whenever he's late I think the same thing. Or I think he just dropped dead. The same thing goes for my mom when she doesn't answer the phone. I don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had anyone close to me die or anything like that. I've never lost someone I love before so why is this always happening? Right now my boyfriends phone is off and it's probably because his battery is dead. He should be home by now but he's not which probably means that he just had to stay a little longer at work. But I'm still sitting here with an uncomfortable feeling in my stomach that something terrible happened. I actually thought about what I would say at his funeral. What can I do about this, it's driving me crazy :( (link)
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Look, being worried about those close to you is very normal. You just need to find ways to not dwell on the subject. Find something to do that will occupy your mind. and Before you know it he'll be home. And after a while you'll get more comfortable not dwelling on the dark and gloomy. Things like that are out of your hands anyway. So the answer is, in a nut shell, is to train yourself not to worry. When those thoughts pop in there, just change the subject. Enjoy your wonderful life, Don't waste it worrying. Hope I've helped!
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