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Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
AIM: laynemayhem15
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Hi, im 15/f
I have never had a boyfriend, kissed anyone, or done anything. I'm a normal sophomore girl I just haven't wanted a boyfriend until now and it's getting crazy. I feel like it's my hormones because I get weird feelings.. But now most of the day I'm daydreaming of having a boyfriend and kissing, snuggling and all that. i also don't find blow jobs gross like I would give one to him after a while. But I do find sex terrifying and I wouldn't have that though. No guy has come into my life yet, and i just want him to already. (link)
First of all, its getting to be winter and this is when we all start to feel awfully lonely ;) It's cold outside and a partner to snuggle with and kiss is a very warming thought. The "weird feelings" you are talking about are probably you being horny. I might get in trouble for recommending this, but try exploring your body a little bit. You might be able to relieve some of the sexual tension.

Modern society has made it unorthodox to be a virgin at your age, on top of not ever having a boyfriend. The fact of that matter is, IT IS OKAY. Every young lady is different and no one's "first time" is the same as the next person's. Everyone will find someone when the time is right; start looking now. Once in a relationship, every relationship is different. Everybody goes through the bases at their own pace. And if the guy really likes you, he WILL wait for you to be ready to give yourself to him. As far as that goes, use a condom and wait until you are truly ready. And (I've heard guys spread around this theory) you definitely can get pregnant your first time having sex. Most important, BE PATIENT! Don't let anyone pressure you into thinking you HAVE to have a boyfriend. I hope any or all of this advice helped you, and I wish you luck.


Rating: 5
you are real awesome girl! thanks for making me feel like it is ok to be like this you really REALLY helped me!




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