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Q: There's this girl who is my "friend" but sometimes she is such a bully and makes me cry. Then, she'll go right back to being "nice". I try to avoid her but I can't. Is this bullying? What can I do? I've tried confronting her but it hasn't worked. Anyone have an idea? All advice welcome. :)
First of all, how can you consider her a friend if she makes you cry? As for whether she is a bully or not depends on what she does to you, does she hurt you physically, for example? Try not to see this girl, what she does to you is wrong. A friend does not make you cry, they're supposed to support you, help you, uplift you when you're down and so on. Hope it helps you a little :)

Thank you, you're right. I'll try that. :)

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