My name is Nour,I'm 16. I was born and raised in " The Big Apple" I moved to Kuwait recently. I started this column because i've been through a lot of shit lately... i have tried to commit suicide, trusted people who have ruined my life, and i am a disgrace to my family :) I chose my name to be nobody..cause i feel like a nobody, and it sucks a lot :)
so I am willing to answer any questions you have, cause people always say i have the best advice...DON'T WORRY I DON'T JUDGE! people have Judged me too much, but i don't give a shit :) so write and i will answer :)
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
Website: When Sparks FLY
E-mail: nourbizri98@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: America But live in Kuwait
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: November 10, 2013
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Me and a really wonderful guy were talking. Just as friends because we relatively just met before that but I developed a little crush on him. It wasn't anything serious at the time but later as we continued to talk, we became closer. He was going through a bad break up at the time when we started getting closer. And I took advantage of the fact that I could really get close to him by helping him out and genuinely supporting him. I never told him I liked him because at the time I wasn't 100% convinced I did like him a lot. He used to message me daily and talk to me all the time. You see, I'm a type of person who likes to get to know someone first before declaring my feelings. And I'm not the most confident person in the world to boldly admit I like someone. I was hoping as we got closer and time progressed and he healed from his pain, that things would be good between us to the point that he too realized he had feelings for me. Next thing I know, he was talking to another girl. I think they were just talking but then they got closer. She out right told him that she liked him, and went a little crazy about it posting it that she was in love, etc. she's got a really annoying bubbly personality. (I'm not saying this because of how I feel. Other people have said the same.) anyway, I was so disappointed when I found out he liked her. Like what the hell did I even mean to you? I help u through all your problems and this is how it ends. The girl is a nice girl and I think she has a good heart. He says she understands him. I'm pretty sure he told me he was glad I understand him. He says he doesn't want a relationship now and that they're just talking and he's not in love with her but it still hurts. She seems like a confident person. Whereas I like to give hints and hope you take it. He told me he's really good at reading people, well clearly not so much. What sucks more is that I see him and the girl a lot and it just breaks my heart each time to think about it. I really liked him and now I'm just sad with regret. I don't want a relationship right now and I told him that (during a regular convo). He told me the same goes for him. But now this is the situation. I don't want to tell him because that will make life for all of us complicated. I want to get over him and move on.:( (link)
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Well... All girls have to deal with broken hearts and sometimes it's hard. But what I think you should do and it works all the time by the way is just stop talking to him..so it just dies down and you get over him... And then you can start talking to him and he'll realize that wow.. She's pretty cool :) and then things will change :) and even though he doesn't want a relationship if you wait awhile maybe he'll change his mind!
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
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I feel like if I shut him out, I'll just lose out more. He's a nice guy, even just as a friend. He's done a lot for me so I can't just shut him out and I see him a lot because of a job I have. Completely ignoring him can't be done but I do hope he'll realize one day.
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