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Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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I'm 14, and a girl. So last year I came on this website and I was looking at the "Recent Popular Questions" and I saw a question asking "do I have this disorder?" Me, being nosy as I am clicked on it and it said the symptoms of depersonilization disorder which I only have one( feeling like life is a dream)which is normal but I read if u think too much about it u eventually believe you have it. My grandmother and I have touched on this subject and she got me a counselor. I'm really shy so I don't want to go to a counselor but anyways, I've had this disorder on my mind for the past 10 months and I've been really worried I'm going to get it because it doesn't sound like fun to have at all. I want to live my life, not worry my life away and btw I have ocd(which really sucks) and I have gone some days without worrying about this..I'm just really scared I'm going to get it, how can I forget about tht disorder?? Help is much appreciated(: (link)
How about don't worry about it? They just said if you worry too much, you'll get it. Which is a psychological trick, by the way. You only have one symptom. That's not enough to have it or get it. You're only 14. If you don't walk around feeling like life is a dream at this age, then there is something wrong with you. Listen, I did the same thing when I was your age and it threw me into a psychward twice before I was 20. You think OCD sucks now, wait until you lose all control of everything in a hospital. Then OCD sucks. Don't psych yourself out by thinking you'll get this disorder. The more you dwell on it, the more symptoms you think you'll have, and then before you know it, people will think you're crazy. Don't worry about it. Enjoy your life while you're young cuz things could be a lot worse for you and they aren't.


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