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Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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So I'm 13 and this guy is 14 and we met at camp. He always starred at me and I starred at him. And a month ago I told him I liked him and he liked me back so we got together. Then after a week I see another girl hitting on him and that very night he dumps me. But I still really like him. And he knows that I'm sad but he doesn't know what I'm sad about ...I really like him. Ive never liked a guy this much

During the early teenage years people and guys especially can be very wishy washy. It's common for them to go with someone for a week and move on. It doesn't make since for someone like you who was happy and more settled and mature in the relationship but for some reason at this age in particular it's easy for people to pick up and move on to the next relationship. If it would make you feel better tell him how you feel but I doubt it will change his ways. Sounds to me like he will be on to the next person very soon. I wouldn't be surprised if he came back around wanting to be with you again at some point but remember how you feel now. You don't want to go through that hurt again. I would find something or someone else to occupy my time and emotions with. You have your whole life ahead of you. You are so young and worth so much more than how he is treating you. Trust me, as soon as you open your heart up to someone else your feelings for him will fade away and quickly. As easily as he left you he will leave this other girl but don't show him that you even care. He doesn't deserve to sit up there thinking every girl wants him and without him your world has stopped. Don't make him that important. You are that important. Make him wonder about you.

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