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18/m
So lately I have been having problems liking girls. I start to like them and like them for a month or so then my feelings fade away and get annoyed by them or get really picky of what they do.
I dated this girl for 11 months and she cheated on me and treated me like shit, about a month later or so I found a new girl and I liked her alot then as I said my feelings just disappear and I get annoyed.
This summer I found a good girl who genuinely liked me for me. I liked her a lot for about 2 months then one day was just sick of her and no feelings for her.
Why is this happening and how do I make it stop? It use to never happen to me. I was usually pretty spot on when I liked a girl.
Any help is appreciated! Thanks :) (link)
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Being cheated on is never easy. It's painful, especially when you are with someone that long. But truthfully, I think subconciously you are predicting that each girl will hurt you. Basically, this ex girlfriend of yours cheating on you, made you afraid to get involved with someone new, get too close to them. Because as soon as you open your heart, it makes your vulnerable to more hurt. So, without you even knowing, you keep your walls up. Your head tells you that little things she does annoys you, and it's giving you reasons to not like her anymore. You are justifying your walls.
How do you make it stop? Well, sweetheart. You need to let someone in. You could try an online relationship, just for the sake of an example. You could get to know her, and her you, without you having to notice all her physical habits. I think once you let someone back in, give them a chance, you will have a much easier time. But just because you need to let someone in, does not mean you must settle for less. Make sure to find someone that you can actually make a connection with :)
Be well! :)
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