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I love my boyfriend vry much,and wants to marry him. we r dating each othr for 2yrs. but i lied to him about my past that i don't had any relationshp in past. actually i had a relatn when i jst 13/14 years old. my x bf was very rude and tortured me a lot mentally and physically ..and aslo sexually. so i ended the relation.after few yrs i met in online with my present boyfriend.and started love him. when he proposed me i said yes to him. but i can't tell him about my past and i also tell him that i am a virgin.i was afraid to lose him bcz he is very orthodox.so i can't tell about my dark past.now he knows everything from a person.and asked me and i told him everything about my life. now he can't trust me,he call me a sl*t,, and he said that
i deceived him and used him.he now wants to break the relationship or IF I WANTED TO BE WITH HIM THEN I HAVE TO DO WHATEVER HE WILL SAY. AND ALSO LEAVE MY STUDY AND MARRY HIM AND BE A GOOD HOUSE WIFE.AND he tell me that this my exam. if i passed then he love me again .but i can't leave my study at this time. so he don't talk with me .I really love him a lot.i can't live without him.what can i do??? plz suggest me .. (link)
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Tell him this: he is being unfair to you as a woman- you deserve to live your own life! If you want to do your study then tell him. You do not want to waste your life being a stay at home wife. This is the 21st century. You are sorry you lied to him, because this dating thing happened when you were very young and silly. It was a mistake and you are sorry it happened. You want to work, and have a career because being a stay at home wife doesn't interest you. You love him very much, but you want him to accept and love you back so that in the relationship you are equals. You love him, but if he won't accept you then you're not sure it will work. Really hope I helped and good luck :-)
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