Member Since: September 23, 2013 Answers: 12 Last Update: September 26, 2013 Visitors: 1452
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So I am NOT the type of person who sleeps around.
But this week I lost my V to someone at Uni. Whilst they were not a complete stranger, I had only known they existed for about a week.
So this person was all like 'I'll text you' and things, and basically I have heard nothing.
I just feel terrible. For a few days ago I felt elated that I'd finally done the deed so to speak. At the same time though, I now also feel like I was used and abit worthless.
Don't go telling me that that's what you sign up to when having a one night stand please-how can I make myself feel better.
More importantly, will I see this person around and should I add them on facebook, considering we talked at length about our lives and things first. (link)
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The best thing to do after a one night stand is to focus on yourself. Reflect on yourself about what kinds of things do you want to improve in your life? And then go out and pursue those things. Focus on YOU and don't worry about 'what if he texts me' 'what if i see him'.. he's a jerk for using you and then not even apologizing, explaining or talking to you afterwards. forget him and focus on yourself! Make some goals for yourself and you'll feel 100 times better when you achieve them:)
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