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I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend without a condom about a month ago and I took 2 home pregnancy tests yesterday and they both came out positive and i am so scared because my boyfriend is black and my family is very racist on my dad's side but my mom doesn't care if he is black or white but she would freak out if I told her I was pregnant by anybody at 14 years old I know this for a fact because my sister came home about a year ago and told my mom she was pregnant by her boyfriend and he was white and my sister was 17 at the time and she kicked her out she said if you want to act like and adult and have sex and then your going to be treated like one the only reason I had sex in the first place was because my boyfriend said he would break up with me if I didn't have sex with him . I asked him to use a condom and he refused but I still wanted him in my life and now i am pregnant what should I do ? (link)
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Everyone else has this covered. I only really have two things to say.
1) There is no guy you ever want in your life who refuses to use a condom when you ask him to. You deserve better than that kind of blatant disrespect. Any woman does. You cannot tolerate things like that. A guy who demands sex or you break up is a guy you need to break up with.
2) There is nothing wrong with abortion or adoption. You're 14. You aren't ready to be a mother. No one can make that decision for you, but should you decide not to keep the baby in whatever fashion, there's nothing wrong with that decision.
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I really don't believe in abortion I think it's killing an innocent baby
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