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Im 14f and have known I was bi or gay all my life, and im comfortable with it.my best friend...ive had a crush on her for years.she knows I do, but it hurts sometimes, I really like her shes straight.im cool with our friendship.its amazing, but how can I stop you know...likeing her in that way so muxh? Cant get over it. (link)
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Separation.
Talk to her. Tell her that you need to get over the crush and you need a little time with no contact with her until you deal with it.
I'm a guy, I had a similar situation with a girl not too long ago. I was into her, she wasn't into me, but we were close friends. I had to step back for a little while in order to get my head straight. Not permanently, just maybe for a few weeks, maybe a couple of months.
Can be hard in school. When you're an adult you can just not have someone over and not go to their place and not call and you're golden. Just be gentle about it. Let her know that it's your problem and you just have to deal with it yourself, and that you'll be back as soon as you're emotionally able. Stress that nothing about the friendship has changed, it's just the crush that needs to die.
Be prepared on your end, if you're successful, that you find that you have less desire to spend time around her. When you're friends with someone you're attracted to, often that's part of why you get so close with them in the first place.
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