Member Since: August 13, 2013
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So I've been talking to/hooking up with this guy that I met about a month ago. We have good chemistry together and don't seem to ever run out of things to talk about so things are going well between us. The thing is that he's 33 and I'm 19.
We've already had sex once but we're making plans to have a sleepover together soon and I was just seeking some advice as to what older guys might like in bed.. I know everybody has their own preference, and we're comfortable with each other so I can ask questions (like "do you like when I do that/what do you want me to do"), but what may be something that could kind of 'wow' him from me?
Being younger, I definitely don't think I'm as experienced as he is. My sex life for the past 2 1/2 years has been with the same guy, my ex-boyfriend, so I'm a little nervous that what I'm used to may be a little boring.
Any tips would be appreciated.. thanks! (link)
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Be your self. But if you really want to know what he likes ask him what his fantasy is and take it from there. I know I'm going to sound like an old lady and you probably don't want to hear what I'm going to say...... But I'll say it any way. The age difference is bothering me. The guy is 33 . Trust me when i say 9 times out of 10 he's up to no good. The fact that you're 19 may mean to him that he's just looking to hook up and when he's done move on to the next victim. If your not emotionally invested go ahead hook and have fun. But I already know its not going to go far. I'm 31 years old. There is nothing that a 33 year old man can have in common long term with a 19 year old. P.S just because he's older doesn't make him any different to a 19 year old guy. Men are all the same when it comes to sex and their pretty simple. You could brush you hair in front of him and he'll get turned on.
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Lol thank you for the concern but like I told the other user who said pretty much the same thing, I trust this guy and I know plenty about him.
It doesn't have to be long term between us. I'm aware we're at different points in our lives but for however long this lasts, we're having fun and love getting to know each other... and just saying, since you don't know me personally, you wouldn't know how mature I am for my age. I know I'm ahead of my years especially compared to a lot of my friends and people I know... now, I'm not saying I'm ready to settle down and get married but there are plenty of things I see in this guy that I wish people my age had.
But you're right; being myself is all I can really do. If he likes me just the way I am, then that's all I could ever possibly ask for. And it's really great because I know he does.
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