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So I've been talking to/hooking up with this guy that I met about a month ago. We have good chemistry together and don't seem to ever run out of things to talk about so things are going well between us. The thing is that he's 33 and I'm 19.
We've already had sex once but we're making plans to have a sleepover together soon and I was just seeking some advice as to what older guys might like in bed.. I know everybody has their own preference, and we're comfortable with each other so I can ask questions (like "do you like when I do that/what do you want me to do"), but what may be something that could kind of 'wow' him from me?
Being younger, I definitely don't think I'm as experienced as he is. My sex life for the past 2 1/2 years has been with the same guy, my ex-boyfriend, so I'm a little nervous that what I'm used to may be a little boring.
Any tips would be appreciated.. thanks! (link)
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Have sex. Start talking after. Ask him what he's into, what he'd like to try, share a few of your own ideas, come up with some together, and keep an open mind about trying things you never have before.
Positions, acts, clothes, roleplay, new locations to have sex, there are plenty of subjects you can discuss. If all else fails, go find a tube porn site and go through categories together and see if anything is mutually appealing. Plenty of ideas there to look at, and you can have fun watching some porn together while you're at it.
Do some googling. Look up instructions for things you already know how to do. There are lots of ways to do oral, plenty of things you can do with your hands.
Look up videos of massages. Instruction pages. Whatever. Being able to give a good massage will win anyone points in a relationship.
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Great ideas. Thank you especially for not lecturing me about our age difference.
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