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AIM: duhxxnina
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Last Update: September 21, 2013
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So I've been talking to/hooking up with this guy that I met about a month ago. We have good chemistry together and don't seem to ever run out of things to talk about so things are going well between us. The thing is that he's 33 and I'm 19.
We've already had sex once but we're making plans to have a sleepover together soon and I was just seeking some advice as to what older guys might like in bed.. I know everybody has their own preference, and we're comfortable with each other so I can ask questions (like "do you like when I do that/what do you want me to do"), but what may be something that could kind of 'wow' him from me?
Being younger, I definitely don't think I'm as experienced as he is. My sex life for the past 2 1/2 years has been with the same guy, my ex-boyfriend, so I'm a little nervous that what I'm used to may be a little boring.
Any tips would be appreciated.. thanks! (link)
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Ask him questions and just do what you can do best. And I'm sorry but I have to say this... He's 33 and single... Why can't he find someone his own age? Do you realize he's dropped down to a 19 year old? Who just graduated high school and is going to college when he should have a career be financially stable and done with Hookups and such and be with a family? Please think out of the box with this one. Maybe there's something h don't know about him to why he's single. And I'm sure your an attractive girl... So honestly if he has opportunity to get with it... He's going to because men don't think. (no offense to the men that do !!) but I'm sure there is a male on here that could back up what I'm saying and its only for your own protection. Think...why won't people his own age date him? 19 year olds are children going Ito the real world... He's been in the real world to quite some time now.
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I appreciate the concern but I've learned a lot about him and it's not like he's been single his whole life, lol. He was with somebody for a few years quite recently and they broke up. He's also been married before; but like everybody else, relationships come to an end.
Point is that he's single and so am I, and we have a really, really good time together and I barely even see the age when I look at him. I see somebody I have fun with and can talk to and joke around with. I mean, we've talked about our age difference plenty of times but knowing where he is and knowing where I am and how we feel about it, we're totally fine with it.
He's got plenty of people his own age to date him as do I.. neither of us even thought this would ever happen but it just did. I guess a big reason is that I'm very mature for my age and I love the maturity that he has, which is something I don't see often in people my age... Again though thanks for the concern but I trust him. :)
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