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I work with a man who is 41, and I'm turning 21 in november. We've made plans to go out before but it always fell through. I really like him and something might happen with this but is he too old? He has one kid who is younger than I, and my parents are older than him, so I keep telling myself he's not.
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The usually accepted barrier for "ew!" is your age minus seven, times 2. So for you, it would be 38. 41 is just over the line.
You are an adult, so is he. If you want "something to happen" (weird how girls talk about sex as if it was just this random lightning strike that they had no responsibility for), then hey - "something" will probably "happen".
But don't kid yourself that it means more than it does.
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Your response offended me. I was not referring to sex; I was referring to a relationship. You don't know me and you shouldn't judge me by my age. Sex is not "something random" to me, and if I gave off that vibe in my question, then excuse me.
Thanks for your time.
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