My name is Lacey and I'm 22. I have decided to give all the advice that I have to anybody who needs it. Anything at all ASK ME. I've been through it all and I have nothing but answers. I'm a very smart girl and I like to help others when needed. I'm a very positive, caring and magnanimous person. I'm looking to be a future advice columnist hopefully one of these days and I hope that the advice I give to everyone is helpful. Feel free to just talk to me if you need to.
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Age: 22
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My ways of coping w/sadness have never really been healthy. Self-harm was a part of my life for 3 years & the last time was 4 months ago. I don't have much desire to do it again because I don't feel it has the same affect on me anymore. About a year ago I began praying & trying to put my life in Gods hands & I feel I've built a strong relationship w/God I feel I've gained a lot of hope/faith from it, but when I'm sad I feel I become a completely different person I become so angry & feel so helpless & all I do is cry & feel like dying after I've taken some time to calm down those feelings subside. I'm just afraid I won't give myself some time to calm down & I'll end up acting on those feelings... need advice :)
Thank you! any advice is very much appreciated :) (link)
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I totally understand what you are going through and went through the same exact same thing. You might wanna consider counseling, which can be expensive...but also free if you wanna talk to me or anybody else for that matter. It really helps and you can let all the built up anger and sadness out at that time with no regrets. Also try screaming into a pillow, I did that a lot and it seemed to help sometimes. But really, try to see someone or talk to your church about what you're going through. Also, if you're relationship with God is going as well as you say it's going, try praying a lot more and asking him to guide you through the problems. God is always there to help you. Hope I helped. Message me if you have any other questions or problems you'd like to discuss.
Sincerely, ASK-LACEY
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