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So im 15/f and my friend is 15/m. However, im gonna be a junior and he's gonna be a sophomore in hs. And he gets bullied a lot! He's short and small and has some issues like if you met him you could understand why he gets bullied. These douchebags at school always pick on him, beat him up and no one does anything about it. Hes also very sensitive and I Just want to help him get tougher skin and to help him stop getting bullied
However, i dont know how to do this because i also get picked on all.the.time. I get racist jokes, jokes about my name, these guys always pick on me in class. Its never ending torture, i mean tbh i dont care and i dont really get upsrt cause theyre just idiots and i just laugh with them cause i think some r just joking and r just assholes in general but for the new year coming up, i want it to stop so i can actually pay attention in class and not feel nervous all the time cause of them. I dont want to use any teacher or parental help cause they dont help they just make things worse..trust me none of these kids care about getting in trouble but if they knew u got them in trouble..well theyd just be worse. So how do me and my friend get respect and make them stop? Should i stop laughing and ignore them? Should my friend get fit so he can take them? Or something? Idk please help and remember how kids can be and dont just give the "Professional" answer but something that can actually work. So yeah sorry this was long but thanks for helping! (link)
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Hi! First of all, I am so very sorry that people are so mean to your friend. I was bullied in middle school, so I think I can relate to you.
For me, the bullying kind of went away on it's own, when I got to high school. But since that is not your case, here's an article I think you should read. Some people are easy targets for bullies, and I'm one of them. This article helped me realize why I was a target and I think it's helped me protect myself. Here's the link, it's lengthy, but worth it;
https://bullies2buddies.com/Student-s-Manual/how-to-stop-being-teased-and-bullied-without-really-trying-intro.html
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