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28 year old female.
I need help! I dont know what to do. Yesterday my boyfriend of almost a year used my phone to check his facebook messages. Well he left it logged on and I didn't realize it until I got a notification on my phone saying I recieved a message. Not realizing at first that it was his facebook I went to check. Immediately I realized it was his after opening the message but then I noticed my name and started reading. I discovered that he has been talking to this girl for quite a while telling her my life story my secrets and thoughts. I also discovered that he has been waiting for me to fall asleep atleast twice a week and sneaking over to her house. The after reading that message curiosity got the best of me and I decided to read other messages. Turns out he had sex with his ex girlfried/baby's mother the day we got together and on many other occasions. Once even bragged about doing it in the livingroom while I was sick in bed with the flu. He has been cheating on me all along. I thought he was different I thought he was the one I was going to spend my life with. I told him about reading the messages and at first he lied but then he told the truth. Meanwhile my heart is shattered! He broke my trust, he betrayed me, he freaking cheated on me. I have been nothing but good to him. I cook for him, clean for him, invite his buddies over and let them play video games while I bake them all cookies and fetch their beers. I try to never complain and always try to be the perfect girl for him. He has told me many times I am everything he ever wanted. But then he goes and sleeps with someone else. I love him but I cant stand to look at him. Everytime I think about him in bed with another woman I literally get sick. I have no family. I am basically alone in the world. He was the only person I have ever truly loved. What am I to do? Do I stay? I know I cant do any better and I should be thankful for what I have and I know that I am nothing without him, but inside I want to run away. I cant stop crying. Im so hurt. Please help.
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Im only 13 but I am smart enough to know that he doesn't deserve you. You seem smart, and sweet, and I even covet you in a way. You'll find someone better. I promise:)
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