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Hi, I'm Sabrina and I'll try my best to give the community here the utmost advice :) If there are certain mistakes involving the way I convey the words, do pardon me.

"If something is normal doesn't mean we have to accept it."
"Either you run the day, or the day runs you."

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how do you leave a bad guy that thinks your an option ?


First off, identify the whys. There must be a reason why it's hard to let a bad guy go. You're still making him a priority and a quote by Maya Angelou clatifies this "Never make someone your priority when all you are to them is an option." You're going to shatter your own fragile heart in days to come if you keep on reminiscing the sweet memories or hold on to certain promises. This one is hard and excruciatingly painful, but do try stepping into the reality.

What happens next depends on your current option. If you've decided to leave him and you're real about it, your mind will then try to label him as a part of your history but it will take time. No matter how long it takes, if you keep firm to your decision, you will eventually heal. It may take weeks or months but trust yourself, you can go through this. Acknowledge the fact that you've to move on. Neglecting it is no longer an option. Of course there will be some moments where your brain starts to play 'memories' of him or you guys thus weakening you bit by bit but only if you allow it.

Remember, regardless of who you are, your age, your school or background, you're still you. You deserve a better life without anyone destroying it especially someone who takes you for granted.
Good things come to those who wait, and there is always a reason why he's not for you. There are things in life for you to pursue, so pursue them.

Peace be upon you :)

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