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About two nights ago I went over to my friend micheals house, we ended up having sex. We didn't use protection but I am on the pill I have been on it for about 7 days now. Michael and I have had sex before, and the last time I ended up telling my mom the day after and the next day she took me to the doctor and got me tested for STD'S and put me on birth control my results came back clean, that was about 2 months ago. Ever since having sex with him again, I have realized that I have gotten red bumps on my leg I don't know if they have anything to do with what I did with him or if they're flea bites because I have also been dog sitting. I don't have any bumps on my vagina yet they're only at the bottom of my legs and they appeared the very next day after inter course, I put Neosporin on them yesterday but they haven't gone away they have only gotten worse, and more have appeared over night. I have also noticed that when I went to the bathroom this morning I had a dark brown discharge, I googled what that could be and the results varied from STDS, to signs of pregnancy, to just being blood mixed with the discharge. I didn't get a clear answer. The night Michael and I had sex was the night after I got off my period. I was thinking about going to the pharmacy and buying the morning after pill (which is what I did last time) but I figured the birth control was enough, but now after seeing the brown discharge I am having my second doubts.
What do you think the red bumps are from? do you think the brown discharge could be a sign of pregnancy? Could the red bumps on my leg be scabies? What do I do? do I have a bigger chance of getting pregnant since I had sex the day after I got off my period or do I have less of a chabce. I don't want to tell my mom about this again because last time she flipped out and I told her that what happened between Michael and I would never happen again, but it did and now i'm fearing every possible thing that could go wrong is going to go wrong. am I over thinking this or should I tell my mom and take yet another trip to the doctor. Also, I know nothing about Michael's past with girls, I have no idea how many he's been with or who he's been with, but he has been my first everything.. HELP! (link)
Bumps at the *bottom* of your leg? Like, your ankles? Not likely to be sex - unless you were doing it wrong.

Oh - hang on. They are getting worse. Right. When you have something weird happen *that is getting worse*, you see a doctor about it. That's just the crazy world I live in.

It's ok to tell your mom, b/c bumps on your ankles, yeah, probably from the dogs. If it's an STD …

Sex after your period finished. Bad idea - you know sperm can survive for days?

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God, what a train wreck. Look, you silly, silly girl. The reason your mom flipped out is *BECAUSE OF THIS*. She knows what kind of guy Michael is, even if you don't. How bad are you going to let these bumps and discharges and god know what else get? Chlamydia causes permanent infertility, along with a bunch of other stuff you don't need. You cannot hide this forever, and the longer you leave it, the worse it will be.

PS: get rid of the idea that something just kinda "happened" between you and Michael. Like you had nothing to do with it. You had sex with him, it didn't just "happen". You are old enough, now, that you can badly screw up the entire rest of your life doing dumb things. You may already have done it. Tell your mom. See a doctor.



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First of all, I HAVE SEEN A DOCTOR! I just saw one not even a month ago, if I went to the doctor every time I thought something was wrong i'd be there every other week and my parent's would be broke. Doctor's are not free, if you weren't aware.
And I am not a train wreck or a "silly" girl I knew exactly what I was doing, and he's been my first everything, i'm not some kind of slut who sleeps around with a lot of guys this is the first time it's ever happened to me so idk what you mean by "How bad are you going to let these bumps and discharges and god know what else get?" I don't have an STD and neither does he and if you read the question clearly enough you'd see that, seeing as I said "I got STD tested and my result came back clear" and when did I say something just "kinda" happened between us? I also never said I had nothing to do it? Also he didn't cum inside me he cummed ON me so yeah




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