I have joined this because I enjoy giving people advice and helping people, and I have been through a lot in my life although I'm still quite young.. So if I can offer some free advice for those who have been through what I've been through or feel alone in the world, then I will. =). Soo.. Pleeease don't be afraid to inbox me or comment and ask me a question, and in return I promise to at he very least give my best answer x
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here is my story.im a 13 year old female and have had an obvious attraction for women since a very young age. I would deny it every day and say this cannot be happening your straight you like men.I fell into a habit of self destruction. I had 1 crush on a guy, but I was 8 my parents were fighting and I only liked him because he was girly.Last summer a friend who was also questioning her sexuality came out to me at a fair. I talked to her recently and she says shes straight again.At that moment I realized that maybe I am as well.I always would fantasize about women,men almost never.I have come out to a very few close people including my mother who is very accepting and understanding and a few very close friends.they understand,I live in a tight homophobic racist community and have been made fun of for being a bit if a tomboy and holding hands and even hugging and kissing my 2 best female friends good-bye.my dad is one of those guys who never accepts anything like this.im afraid im in a phase, but am sure i'm not.comments?i have anxiety as well. I have had a crush on a girl for he longest time she's straight and knows I like her its complicated she acts like she likes me all the time and says stuff like o shes my half gf, I'm so lost.im a cutter and bruiser and lost.im made fun of constantly and need support and an answer to my questions in my heart about who I like in that way.thank you and I apologize for thwe length. (link)
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When I was your age I was a cutter too.. I couldn't handle stress and didn't know what else to do.. But the way I over come it was accepting me for who I am, it wasn't my sexuality that bothered me it was my race.. But I now realise the ones that truly love and support me will still be there at the end of it all.. I still have the cutting urge dot get me wrong, but I manage to control it by reminding myself that no one will love and accept me if I don't love and accept myself... If you are a lesbian (which sounds like the most likely outcome) then this is not a problem, it does not make you any lesser of a person, not at all. Your dad may be the "judgmental" type but never-the-less he loves you, it may take some adjusting to but he will deal with it, he has no choice, be happy with who you are, embrace it, you sound like a lovely young lady with your whole life ahead of you.. Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are, there is no shame. They may laugh because you're different.. But you will laugh because they are mentally or even physically ugly!..:) x
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