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This is long, I apologize
I have veen with my husband for 5 years abd when we first met things were good until I met his mother... she from the start had a problem with me and portrayed me as being the women who was coming between her and her son. She has tried to break us up countless times, called us 25+ times a day, left nasty voicemails...we both changed our numbers and moved because it became unbearable. We move...then 2 years later we decide to try again a d forgive her so we wrote her a letter. She wrote back again indicating her son atopped talking to her bwacause of me etc. No, Her son stopped talking to her because well several reasons... she was on drugs, in and out of rehab and lost several apartments from not paying rent and her rude manipulative ways. We have gone to the police.. now here is the problem, she lives in the next state over and we do not know where sge is. ANYWAY! after changing jobs...she eventually finds out where my husband works and has been calling his work! He is pissed! We do not know what to do as we dont know where she lives... please help!!!
-at wits end (link)
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calling your family repeatedly and your husbands work is harassment. I don't know what state your living in but that should be grounds for a restraining order. Perhaps you could speak with the police in the state she is living in and ask to report the harassment to them? Perhaps they could track her down to charge her. At least if they have a record of her harassment then they can do something if she gets picked up for something else. If she is a drug addict she may be picked up by the police for something and if there are records of people reporting her, it could work in your favor.
I'm sorry your going through this it's a tough situation with no clear answer. All you can do as of right now is explain the situation to your work, colleges, friends family and anyone she may contact. Ask these people for patience and assure them that you are communicating with authorities to do all you can to get the problem fixed. Until then it may be worth your time to screen all the calls coming out of her area code.
good luck :)
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