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I am an 18 year old female, freshman in college. At my school, probably like every other school, we have this facebook page for you to go on and anonymously post who you think is cute or who you would like to date. Well, in my english class all year, I thought this kid was cute, I catch him looking at me sometimes but that's it. He's very shy, he doesn't talk much in class, matter of fact-I don't either, though really. Anyway, I posted on the facebook page, though and said that I think he is very handsome and that I would date him in a heartbeat. He commented back and said "come forward person who posted this." So, I was thinking about waiting until the last day of class and I was going to message him and tell him that it was me or something along the lines of "okay, I'm coming forward." I want to do it the last day of classes, which is May 17th by the way, because we have a twelve week summer. In case he doesn't feel the same way, I won't feel like an idiot sitting in class knowing that he knows and knowing that he said no. Plus the summer will give him time to think, he'll be able to message me if he wants. But, I'm kind of a chicken and I'm not sure if I will be able to do it or not. So, I guess I'm asking for guys and girls alike for their opinions. Would you want me to tell you? Would you think I was weird? What would you do? Thanks! (link)
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Really? You've got 12 days left. Make the most of them. Waiting till the last day of class... for all you know class ends and he's gone. So you tell him but you can't see him again for about 3 months?
Tell him now. However you want. Send a message, walk up to him, whatever you can muster up the courage for.
Why does he need time to think? What exactly is he going to think about? Not much, if you wait till the last day.
If you told him now you might be able to fit in a few dates before the end of term and actually give him a significant amount of things to think about.
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