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I'll get straight to the point.
19/f
I am in a 2 year relationship and up until this point have never had a problem with my boyfriend or myself watching porn. I always thought it was a healthy form of sexual expression and completely normal. Were very open about these kinds of things.
But then the more I started thinking about it the worse I felt. He doesn't abuse it at ALL and when I watch it, its maybe once a month or less, so these feelings came out of nowhere. It doesn't interfere with our relationship whatsoever.
(Also i'm not religious)
So I just need opinions!
1) Is it healthy/normal for a relationship?
2) It's not considered cheating ... right?
3) How could I maybe cope with it better?
Or anything else you guys wanna say please do.
I'm a little confused about the whole thing and have been feeling pretty bad every time we talk about it.
Thanks!
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i understand what you are going through. but honestly i don't like porn at all. i have always had a problem with it since it is basically plastic "perfect" horny girls. i have always felt like it makes guys think like women are supposed to be perfect you know? anyway that is just me....
but.. if you are okay with it i don't see why it needs to be a problem. unless your boyfriend watches it all the time then that is not good. or like if he starts to compare you? if not then i don't see the problem. i don't think it is considered cheating. at all. your boyfriend is not actually physically touching the other person or doing things with them so i think that is okay...honestly my boyfriend likes watch it and i don't get bothered. as long as it doesn't interfere with our relationship.. thats the most important thing you need to think about.
since you feel so bad about it maybe you are a little more religious than you think? or maybe it is just not in you to watch it?. I'm that way, I'm not really religious but i feel weird when i watch it so i just stay away.. i think you should do the same until you realize what is bothering you, and hopefully you can fix it from there.
overall, i don't think its a problem, but if you have a problem with it you always have a choice. :)
xoxo
ann
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Very true :) I feel a lot better thanks!
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