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Hello everyone! I'm 15/f
There's this boy in my class who LOVES to make fun of me (Let's name him K), or just be straight up rude to me. I used to think he really hated me, but now I'm really not sure....
Let me explain:
He finds times when I'm singing to myself, and he tells me to shut up (to no avail of course) and I tell him how unsuccessful that will be, but he keeps doing so until I feel like stopping.
He makes fun of anything clumsy or stupid that I do.
Any conversation I'm in (I have a low undertone in my voice, so I'm loud when I talk to my friends) he buts in and tells me why he thinks I'm wrong.
I'm a very annoying person (unintentionally), so whenever I do anything that he thinks is annoying, he has to make a comment on it.
He says things like, "Oh no, why is she here?" when I walk into a room, or conversation, or anything like that, that he's in.
He looks at me a lot (thank you, peripheral vision) & I don't know what that's about, to be honest.
But here's the one thing that got me confused:
K knows about my crush. (J) So one day when K & another boy (G) in my class were talking about how a guy that was sitting with them at lunch that day (Curl) had exactly the same hair as my crush's from behind (big bushy, curly hair) and as I sat down, they asked me about it. I told them that his hair didn't really move as much as Curl's did. A split second later I regretted it because both of them were looking at me and G said, "Wow, of course she knows all of that, she likes him!" And then I felt my eyes widen. G says, "she still does!" And then K was about to say, "Yeah, ever since the beginning of the year," but he only said "Yeah, ever since the begin--" and one look at my blushing embarrassed face, stopped him. And he started to blush himself, and kept apologizing to me. The same boy who argues with me everyday, makes fun of me (not like a bully though, don't worry) and is annoyed by me, is being nice to me! He just keeps apologizing & when I look at him, I can see how bad he feels. The whole rest of the period, he didn't ask me for help like he usually does.
My friends keep telling me that since he bothers me a lot, it means he likes me. Is that true? I don't think so...
What do you think? Thanks to all who answer, you are all amazing! I thank you all in advance! (link)
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It's entirely possible your friends are right. Congratulations, you have won the affections of someone with a grade school maturity level.
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Rating: 2
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That didn't help. You just repeated what my friends tell me.
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