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Im dating someone but i like someone else. Is that bad. Like we flirt here and there ALOT. But thats my bf bestfriend. So i dont know what to do. I try to stop taking to him but i just dont. I like him alot and he says he likes me to but im not sure if i believe him. For some reason i cant stop. So any advice here??
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Oh dear! The age-old indecision and uncertainty, eh? How happy you'd be with either...if it wasnt for the OTHER!! I'm afraid that when your 'only' dating you might find it difficult to make yourself simply 'stop' using willpower. A couple of long standing may have 'invested' years of time and effort in each other...and then the desire not to 'risk losing what you've got and what you've worked for' could indeed make you stop. You don't quite believe the other likes you? Possibly that's because if you DID know for sure it would be enough to tip the scales in his favour? And those scales are hanging delicately balanced right now? I honestly can't tell you what to do, wish I could. Got to search your soul, and that's never easy. Play safe? Or risk it? In your search, give a little thought to this 'test' maybe? When you've had a totally crap day, feel thoroughly fed up and you sit down and try to think of something to cheer yourself up a bit....which one do you think of? Since they're friends, if you do choose to date the other guy be VERY particular about the ORDER in which you release one and select the other, won't you? A little 'white lie' can be a good thing...meaning when he asks 'Why?' you want to end the relationship, you do not blithely announce there's someone else, and even worse the someone else is his mate...NOT tactful!! And a 'decent' space of time before announcing your new boyfriend can often allow 'honour to be satisfied' all round as you might say. Good luck whatever you decide.
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I hope your right cause my bf bestfriend said he does like me soo yeah...
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