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Okay, so a few hours ago I was fingering myself, and my father walked in. He stared at me for a few minutes, and then went to his room. I tried asking him if I could talk to him, but he said he was busy, what do I do? I'm scared he'll tell my mother. (link)
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Whoops! Mate, it'll have been as embarrassing for him as it is for you. Really, it's one of those things any parent knows their children do from a certain age, but kind of pretend they don't know. Just let it ride, and don't force the subject up. Your mum will know too, even more than your dad. They might discuss it a bit when they're alone. And the result will be an agreed 'well, we can't keep her a little girl forever. She's growing up.' And I think it's extremely unlikely either will ever mention it to you. It'll quickly pass. It's not like you've been caught doing something criminal, or doing hard drugs. Then your parents would go in hard and you WOULD be in the doghouse. And quite right in these cases. Take "I'm busy" as 'it's acknowledeged and accepted and you don't need to explain anything'. There's an understanding and love going on here that YOU will have with your own kids one day, trust me
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