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Ok so I'm only 15/F and I want to get pregnant. I have a job and I'm pretty sure I could take care of a baby. I have all As in school and I just think pregnant bellies are so cute and baby's are too..sometimes I pretend with my sisters baby dolls but my friend Korey who I want to get pregnant by is black and I'm white and that is just not acceptable in my family... (link)
The job you have is most likely a minimum wage Job and it won't pay for doctor visits hospital bills drapers baby clothes formula and and many other things . Do you think that you can raise a baby by yourself because since you said that your parents wouldn't like if the father of the baby is black which is the least of my worries they probably won't help you raise the baby they might even throw you out do you know how many parents have kicked their kids out of the how when they came home and told them that they were pregnant and some parents don't care if your only 15 they will still throw you out of the house . Babies tend to cry all night do you think you could go to school and do homework on 2 to 3 hours of sleep. what about STD's did you even think about that because when you have a baby you have to have sex and when you have sex you can get an STd if your not careful and condom's dosn't keep you from getting an STD. not to mention the the big belly will go away and then your stuck with a child to raise and no pregnant belly a baby is not a toy you can't just stuff taking care of the baby when you want to . I hope that I have helped you make the right decision and you will think twice before making the hugest mistake of your life . sorry if I hurt your feelings i am just trying to get through to you .


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Thank you for making sense when I was being REALLY stupid. I see the things you said are true and wanted to come back here and thank you for saving me from a HUGE mistake! THANK YOU!




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