Member Since: March 30, 2013
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Last Update: April 4, 2013
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I'm A 13 YEAR-OLD AND MY FRIEND IS ALSO 13.
Ok, so my friend is ALWAYs talking about, oh, I don't know... how she 'loves with all her heart' her 19 year-old boyfriend who has cheated on her numerous times, and she has done the same, or how she lost her virginity at 11, or guys that she's made out with at waterparks, etc. She is also incredibly slutty, but I'm her friend because her personality is good and she stands up for me... but the fact that all the guys in my class and in eighth grade love her and the older guys always tell her that they want to make-out with her, while I'm standing right there (and they ignore me), and she just laughs! all of this, plus my mental disorder (I claw at myself when I'm overwhelmed) makes me extremely insecure, but not in the way that I think I'm ugly, I honestly think I'm beautiful, but in the way that I feel left out and no guys like me.. I mean, one or two have called me sexy, but she (my BEST friend) has been in all these... 'experiences', I guess. and I just feel unwanted by guys. (ps: we're in 7th grade, and I would appreciate it if no one told me, 'oh! you're too young to care about that! I want REAL advice from people.) (link)
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well,if you think you beautiful, thats all i think matters. the fact that your bestfriend gets all the guys and lost her virginity at 11, proves shes some what of a slut. dont put yourself in that position where you dont know if guys like you, im sure they do. but theyre most likely to busy seeking the attention of your friend, they dont realize it. by getting in her pants, it makes them look cool. trust me. im 13 too, and ik what its like. just dont let your guards down and do the same in which your friend is doing. instead of worrying about if youre getting the kind of attention your friend has, worry about the kind of respect and good attention you should have. hope this helps.
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Wow! That is awesome advice! Thank you so much!
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