I am a person who believes that negative criticism never does anything right and only demoralizes... I have been through a lot... but everytime I have fought back...There should be a certain way for making someone show the correct path...and I believe that it should be unbiased and free from personal grudges...this is what i am trying to do...where they will see me not as another columnist just trying to give advices rather see me as a friend whom they can rely upon blindly and be a support when they need a true friend...
But its a request not to use any abusive languages...
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My boyfriend and I took a lot of pictures for Valentines day, which all happen to be on his phone cuz my phone sucks and his is a lot better. So we were on our way to his soccer game and he had twenty minutes to warm up. I asked him if I could send myself some of the pictures from his phone and he said okay. So I was able to send myself one picture. I was basically attaching the rest of them all in one text. He is sitting right next to me putting his cletes about to go and warm up. He stops me and tells me he needs his phone im thinking uhm, you are about to warm up, you don't need your phone. So he says, it's my phone. I didn't even send the one I was attaching and gave it back. I was mad. he made me feel curious like what is he hiding? Then he tells me im wrong for being mad. Am I? (link)
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I am telling you to follow your instincts..not to trust blindly..sometimes what we see dont appear to be the truth...so jumping to conclusions is not right...that does not mean that I am telling you wait until something bigger happens..I am telling you to wait so that you can get more chances to test his loyalty...chances are there he might pass those tests..You are telling that he might be cheating on you...but you are not sure..so start taking note of his words and actions... but view his every action keeping in mind all aspects which may be the truth..I mean that dont look his every action with suspicion... If any where he gets to know that your doubting his actions two things may happen 1. If he is loyal, he might get immensely hurt and break up and you will be left with repenting 2. if he's not he will become more careful so that he will try to cover up everything and you may never reach the truth..and all the way he will blame you only.. so wait while observing him..be careful..dont be mad..be tactful.
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Thanks so much. So are you saying not to read too much into it? Like leave it until something bigger happens?
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