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My boyfriend and I have been together for about there years. I love him but I don't feel like im sexually attracted to him. We can be having sex and he can turn me on but then when I look at his face it turns me off. Like his face looks so ugly up close and the way he kisses me turns me off really bad sometimes. Idk what to do. I want to be with him. Is there any way this could change? He often accuses me of cheating and now I've started having thoughts of cheating.I have never cheated on anyone before. I just want to see if anyone has been through this and if there is hope.
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Not sure who decided to give you that advice below about just ending it because that's not how relationships really work. You say that you want to be with him yet you are not attracted to him and he turns you on in bed but his face doesn't. Seems here that there is a bigger issue here that hascaused a rift between you two and even has him being insecure and causing you to have other thoughts. Sometimes honesty is the best answer before any action is taken. If you are honest about the way you feel and what your thoughts are then you can see if it is time to move on. Just don't make that hasty decision because there are times people just react and then live in regret. Tell him how you feel about everything and what is bothering you about him. If he reacts in a way that causes you to want to break up with him then so be it. But at least talk and see first before anything. Couples will go through their trials and tribulations but it's the ones that are willing to at least be honest and say things that will define whether or not they should stay or move on with each other. You can't say you want to be with someone yet find things unappealing about them without being honest and telling them how you feel to see if there is anything worth there or just a change needing to be made. Sometimes people do things right and wrong which makes us see them as appealing or unattractive. If you decide to break up and move on, make sure you have the right reasons and knowing that you don't want to be with him. As I said you can't say you want to be with someone and use reasons why you don't. It's either you do or either you don't but talking and being honest with what you feel will give you that clarity on what to do.
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Thank you so much. it's funny because I have thought about this before. That the way he acts towards me has contributed to the way I feel now. I used to be so attracted. I also heard that sometimes when guys are doing things behind your back you can sense it. He is really protective over his phone and it makes me so curious. But thanks again, I will talk to him about it.
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