I'm an 18-year-old girl who is cheerful,understanding and a good friend. I like to listen to other people's problems and give advice. I've been told I give good advice,so I decided to start an advice column on this site. I have good qualities and I'm aware of them,but people always mistake that for being stuck up. A person who is stuck up only thinks they're great and tries to show it to everyone. A person who isn't (me) is aware of what they're worth,but have no need to show everyone,because the right people will always acknnowledge them. If you want to ask anything,feel free to. I will really pay attention to what you're telling me and answer the best way possible. I'm looking forward to being a good Advicenator :)
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Age: 18
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I just dumped my boyfriend of two month's two weeks ago.Why?
Because he told my brother to tell me that we are still together,but he's also dating someone else.I was really hurt.So I broke up with him.I told him to never talk to me,and I gave him all his gifts back.
But the wierd thing is,I miss him,and wish he would talk to me.
I also found out from his best friend that he cheats on alot of girls.
I feel like it's my fault he cheated on me,even though it's not.
He only did it,because I wouldn't kiss him.
I'm just confused as to what I should do.Should I give up,and accept that we were not meant to be?Or should I try to fix things? (link)
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Fix it? No. Cheating should never be forgiven. And I mean NEVER. If he really liked you,there would be no reason to cheat on you. I know you're hurt and that you may still have feelings for him. But if you get back with him,he will keep cheating and you will be unhappy. Guys like that don't change. Besides,if his best friend told you so,it must be true,because guys wouldn't normally say that about their best friends. Don't punish yourself with that kind of a relationship and that kind of guy. In time,find a guy who will make sure you know you are all he needs,and who proves it every day. Wasting time on losers is not what you need. You are absolutely not at fault because he cheated. Don't ever feel like that. Hope I helped.
Best wishes,
StarPrincess
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thanks so much,your right.I'm not going back to him.
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