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Hi, I'm Sabrina and I'll try my best to give the community here the utmost advice :) If there are certain mistakes involving the way I convey the words, do pardon me. "If something is normal doesn't mean we have to accept it."
"Either you run the day, or the day runs you."
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.. I tryed to commit suicide once by overdosing and ended up in psycho hospital...( Those that u go for like 3 days to evaluate you) .. Idk ive been thinking about doing it again but the thing is that everyone else thinks I'm being weak selfish ect. I really hate my life. I have major depression disorder and I had bulimia for about 5 years ever since I was 13yrs old..I just simply want to die. I lost all my motivation and I don't want to do anything. I used to draw and I won some awards.. I used to b an A+ student and now I can bearly pass my classes. I cry every night. I know lots of people but I don't have many friends. I don't have communication w my parent bcz I don't even live w them. I live w my grandparents and sisters. Sometimes I just want to take all the pain away but it seems impossible. Ever since I was 13 Ive been dealing w this.
I just don't want to feel miserable all the time.. I am a weak person. And I believe that I have the choice to die because after all It is MY life. I know many of you will probably tell me the opposite but I'm set on that. I have also been seeing a therapist. You may say I'm crazy but I just really want to know ways on how to kill myself fast and easy...
First and foremost , I cannot give you an advise on how to kill yourself easily and fast unfortunately and i know i shouldn't have read your question if what i'm going to say will be the opposite of your expected answer but i'll just spill the beans . It'll be long although you've been seeing the therapist and others .
Look , you may have the choice to end your life because it's your life but why wouldn't you choose the choice to fix it ? When it comes to the word 'Life' , there's a simple yet meaningful question . Is your life story going to be a gripping bestseller or a resignation letter ? You create your own experience . You can be happy just the way you were as long as you manage your thoughts . Believe me , you're stronger than what you think and to every problem , there's always a solution and you deserve to live your life , the way you want . Please , don't end it now , you're too special for that kind of treatment to yourself . Trust yourself on this and be motivated and instead of holding to the perception of '' I can't and won't succeed.'', ''I'm too weak for this.'' , ''I'm not smart enough.'' or ''No matter what I do , it won't make a difference.'' , hold on to '' behind every ordeal , there's an endowment and behind every hardship , there's relief and behind every trial , there is happiness '' but it all depends on you .
Recognise that you've the courage within you to fulfill the purpose of your birth . Summon forth the power of your inner courage and live the life of your dreams and let go of anger towards the world and yourself - It's an acid that burns away the delicate layers of your happiness . Think of what you still have - A roof as a shade from the rain , the ability to see and feel , and life itself and have gratitude . If you can lose a penny , you can still gain a penny . The same matter applies to motivation . You can gain it back ! Don't do nothing , do whatever it takes to make you happily alive . Strive for it and learn from failures . Have love towards yourself too !
Have an inspiration . For instance , take Oprah Winfrey as an example to have the strength . At the time she reached the age of 13 , she has suffered years of physical and mental abuse and had been through immense poverty and grew up without enough love from her mother but despite all of that , she grew up to be a successful woman mesmerizing everyone . You too , can be the same . True strength comes from your heart , your willingness to survive the hardships befalling you . Give yourself another chance to breath and attain success . Give yourself a new hope and don't let people affect you . No one knows what life has to offer but it's not whether you get knocked down , it's whether you get up .
Problems are temporary but giving up is what makes them permanent . Remember the great moments when you used to be an A+ student and won awards , and re-live those moments . Nothing is impossible . Ruminate on it deeply , and wisely . Happiness comes from you , it's already there in you but you're letting the disappointment blocking it's way out . Think about it . Don't you want to be in tranquility and jubilance ? You can go through this . You can . Stop listening to the negative voices within , shut them down and start thinking of the positives .
Your life can really be different - you just haven't had the tool , the focus , and the 'inside scoop' yet . Master your past now , or your past will master your future . Life has so many beautiful things for you , chase after them with strategies . Don't cry now , you're still the pretty you no matter what people say . Don't cry , don't cry :)
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