Member Since: November 23, 2012
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 10, 2013
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1. Boyfriend made plans to go play turkey ball. Comes back and starts talking about how he felt like a loser since all the guys had their girlfriends there playing too. Then he accuses me of not wanting to go with him when he has never asked me to come even in the past years.
2. He called a couple times while I was getting ready to leave the house for a family thanksgiving lunch. The texts he sends me say "I know you are at lunch with a guy. I can act just like you if I want."
3. Him: you never talk about guys around me babe.
Me: yea because if I tell you how guys hit on me, you are going to try and turn the whole thing around on me.
Him:you so you hide stuff from me.
Me:yea well im not hiding anything that you're thinking from you, but I haven't told you every instance where guys have hit on me because of how you react.
4. He always accuses me of sleeping with my coworker, whom I supposedly flirt with? Im not allowed to talk to my male coworkers. Or just sleeping with other guys.
5. He doesn't see what I have contributed to the relationship. He said me taking him to the nba game or taking him to eat for his birthday doesn't. Mean anything.
What do I do. Two and a half years together..
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First off Thanksgiving is a day set aside to be with your loved ones and to be thankful for all you have. Turkey ball sounds to me like another excuse to not be with loved ones and to not be thankful. Perhaps he should be thankful for you ok. Why aren't you upset that he didn't go with you? Listen up, all jealousy, especially mean verbal jealousy is a meens of control. It's only intent is to try to make you feel bad or ad a complex to keep you in one spot. You have as much right to a life as anyone else. If I were you I'd atleast consider giving him a choice. Either shape up and be in a big person relationship or ship out and enjoy Turkey ball.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you for being so blunt and honest. :D
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