Member Since: November 9, 2012
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Last Update: November 12, 2012
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So I reached out to my ex,we've been broken up since july 2011-she dumped me,just to say what's up and surprisingly we have been talking/texting everyday now going on 2 weeks. But it seems like everytime I tell her something sweet I.e. I still love you,I remembered it because its about you,or that's something about you that I fell for, etc..there is a noticeable halt in her response. Like I won't hear from her for hours and when she does respond its something completely different than where we left off. Is it a coincidence she gets busy/distracted when I happen to say these things or am I making her uncomfortable or is there some underlying thought that she may have the same feelings and just doesn't know how to respond?? (link)
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It's not a coincidence - she's not acknowledging your feelings - which means she's uncomfortable talking about it with you. She may miss your company / friendship aspect of your relationship but does not want to be romantically involved. In either case she is being selfish and only thinking of herself. If she isn't acknowledging what you have said - she has no self-awareness - she SHOULD be saying "I'm sorry - maybe it's too soon for us to talk - I didn't want to mislead you". I'm a 43 year old married female - happened to stumble across this website.
The best way to communicate is by speaking to one another NOT TEXTING. Too much gets lost in translation. If you had been speaking more than texting than you can address the issue.
You have nothing to lose by being true to yourself.
Be bold, courageous & fearless...allow yourself to step into the unknown - just address the issue......she is the only one that can answer your question.
Good Luck !!! xoxo
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That's what she would tell me initially when we broke up,the misleading part. But i backed off and now I'm trying again, 4 months later after no communication.She hasn't said anything of that nature so far,that's why I'm confused. Thanks for advice.
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