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18/F
There is a boy I went to school with that I have had a crush on for awhile now so we finally started texting about 4 months ago, and we Finally hungout one day. We went to this beach and smoked and had a really good time, it seemed like we had lots of chemistry. We kissed at the end of the night. The problem is that he is always busy. He goes to college and has a job and puts his friends before everything so he never has time to hangout or even talk. I text him first probably 90% of the time. So we hungout again about a month ago and we ended up having sex. That was a month ago and we haven't talked since. I haven't texted him and he hasn't texted me.
So basically i'm thinking he used me? He just wanted to have sex? When we hungout it really seemed like we had a connection and he liked me but am I wrong, should I just give up?
I really liked him though. (link)
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I wouldn't necessarily say he used you, because to be fair it seems you both wanted to have sex. On the other hand i do think that it is upseting on his behalf that he hasn't made an effort to communicate with you. I think it's best for you to try not to text him because its been a month and he hasn't made an effort to reach out to you, so it just may be that he viewed the situation for what it was at the moment, but not planning for anything from that. Let him reach out to you, if he's genuinely interested he will. If he doesn't, don't beat yourself up about it. I know you really like him, but please remember you are wonderful and you put yourself out there expressing yourself towards him, you deserve the same effort back, so don't settle.
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