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Hi, I'm Sabrina and I'll try my best to give the community here the utmost advice :) If there are certain mistakes involving the way I convey the words, do pardon me.

"If something is normal doesn't mean we have to accept it."
"Either you run the day, or the day runs you."

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My sister has always been overly sensitive and hypocritical. You can't do certain things to her without her getting all worked up about it, but she can do the same things to you and if you get mad, she makes excuses for herself. She lives six hours away and gets mad at me because I don't answer the texts she sends me in the middle of the night or while I'm in class or at work, then she goes and cries to my parents about it and has them chew me out. Tonight, my dad and I had to go on a two hour search for my mom who was missing for a total of three hours. My phone was dying and I needed to save what battery power I could for my mom if she called or finally answered one if my calls. I'm not kidding, we went to look for her at the emergency room and I'm the one who had to go in alone because my dad was in his pajamas. I was so scared for her and super relieved when we found her. Then my sister calls her and tells her how I suck because I didn't answer a text she sent me just to ask what's up during that awful time. When my mom told her the reason, she was P.O. that my dad and I didn't call her. We just didn't want to worry her and I didn't have the battery life left on my phone, but she won't listen and will use this against me forever. Am I wrong or is she?

Ask yourself , what mistake did you do ? What mistake did your sister commit ? I can see the answer very obvious but i can't judge 100% . I don't know how is it going there but anyway , tell your sister to stop making excuses and keep on making bad stories about you , you know you don't deserve that . Be brave to stand up ! Don't let this mess be forever and no longer fix-able , tell the truth and somehow , i think your sister has another story of her life which she doesn't tell , and it might be painful for her because everyone , each and every single one is fighting a battle inside one's life . Maybe you can tell your mum , so she can advise your sister and one day , she will change but that change has to come from her alone , and as for you , be strong okay ? Let your smile change the world , but don't let the world change your smile even your family , or buddies .

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much. I will take your advice. :)
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