I have dealt with many emotional and psychological issues both personally and in my career. I've gone thru emotional, verbal and sexual abuse, severe depression, therapy, emotional hospitalization, sexual addiction diagnosis, divorce and suicidal ideations. So I've been there, I'm a healthy person now and in a healthy relationship. But I've definately learned from the School of Experience and I'd love to be able to help others with the knowledge that all that has brought me. I'm not judgemental but I will be very frank if with my OPINIONS.
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21/f. So there's this boy in my class. he's 24. And he is such a flirt. He always stares at me. We joke around a lot, and we've become pretty close. He always stares at me and i'll ask him why he always stares at me, and he'll just smile at me. I stare at him too. so yeah. He ooked right at me when i walked into class once, and was smiling at me, but i didn't look at him and i just rolled my eyes. haha. But my only thing is that in the past i'd get too excited and start assuming things and end up getting my heart broken :/ Yesterday we worked on our project together, and then when we were finished he said he had to take care of some business, and that he'll come back and check on me. So he came back and i was taking a quiz and he helped, and we talked. I thought it was sweet, but i wasn't sure if he was just being nice maybe? Like i said before i don't want to jump to conclusions. What do you think? Does he like me? Should i see where this goes? I am not sure if he likes me, or if he even has time for a girlfriend if he's even remotely interested in me since he works a lot. so yeah. (link)
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Thanks for your comment, Sorry I misinterpretted your question when you said "he's such a flirt" I thought you meant he was a flirt in general. Sorry again.
OK. Dear "does he like me?" guys think different than girls. There are men who are ready for a relationship and there are guys who just want to date, hang out, have fun, have a roll in the hay but nothing exclusive. If he's flirtatious with multiple girls, it's probably the later so watch his body language around other chicks. Don't sell yourself short either. If you are looking for a relationship, you won't be able to change his mind to be ready for a relationship if he is still wanting to keep things light and have fun with multiple partners. You MUST know what you want and don't ever ever settle for less. Once you've slept with him casually, you'll never be able to go back and change him to see you as someone he may want to be exclusive with. That must be established in the beginning. If you and him end up dating a few times and you feel like it may lead to more you need to let him know that you only sleep with men that you are exclusive with, if that's truly how you feel.
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I am confused about your response. I never said anything about sleeping with him. I said I didn't want to get my hopes up high because whenever i do i get my heartbroken! I haven't seen him flirt with other girls. So yeah.
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